My napkin fell to the floor and as I bent down to pick it up, I cursed under my breath. Sure enough, I saw them on a date a few days later.
Guilty feet have got no rhythm, but they never lie.
As the author of the first body language book for gay men, I'm often asked how male body language affects guy-on-guy dating. But to understand why certain postures, gestures and expressions make you more appealing to gay guys, you have to understand the 5 major principles of gay body language: The truth leaks out of our bodies like a pockmarked water pail.
As soon as we put a finger in one hole another one opens up.
When a person has contempt for you their body language or nonverbal communication will show a half smile.
Now this nonverbal cue may last less than a half second or last for a few seconds.
Remember if a man or woman has contempt for you they will use a half smile on either side of their face.
There are times where the person will look at you or they may even try to look away to hide the feelings and emotions that they have for you.
Whether you're the pursuer or the pursued, the same principles apply: Your body language changes when you see a guy you're attracted to (so be aware of it), you can consciously use certain body language tactics to change your mood, use open and inviting gestures and, finally, if you want to know if a gay guy is attracted to you, watch where he points (especially his feet).This micro expression is very telling and could save you from a dangerous situation or even a bad relationship. Remember when it was easy to tell when someone was interested in you?One of the quickest and most effective ways of interpreting the emotions is to understand what the facial expressions mean.Understanding what contempt is really helps as to understand what another person thinks of you.Of course there are differences in the way men and women do use body language to flirt.